Cold Turkey or Bust! Having been an unrepentant addict for nearly thirty years, I feel adequately qualified to make the following statement: “Unlike any other drug, pornography must be tackled head on. You cannot overcome it in stages, you cannot seek assistance through medication and you cannot do it without God.” I didn’t start my […]
Cold Turkey or Bust! Read More »
If I have an itch, should I scratch it? It’s 11.34pm and everyone has gone to bed. I had Mass earlier today and feel good about myself. My stomach is still full after a big family roast and I am in a state of grace. Life really couldn’t feel better, could it? This itch is
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Who cares most – UK or US? Having spent most my life oblivious to the harm caused by pornography I am now keen to understand how this has been allowed to happen? In a society that constantly rages over the harm done to children, it seems surprisingly ‘quiet’ with reference to pornography and its effects.
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The long night… I love the thought of going to bed and having a long night’s sleep. Most nights I will slip into blissful slumber after just a few pages of my book. I will mutter some protective prayers to Blessed Mary and then happily go to sleep. I am content and at peace and
On this first Sunday of Lent I thought it appropriate to introduce an excellent purity challenge produced by Covenant Eyes. I make no apologies for stealing it from them as they happily ask users to share the information. I am currently on Day 20 and find it very beneficial in understanding my addiction. I will
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It is not acceptable to ignore research that supports the harm we cause ourselves by watching pornography. We are accountable for our decisions and must never shy away from information that may cause us to ‘question’. Addictive behaviour leads to unhappiness, sexual impotence and eventually, Hell. It is your moral duty to take the time
Pornography is not just a bad habit* Read More »
The Daily Mail – PORN HUB celebrate ’10 years of porn’. The most problematic area to research on the internet is pornography and its effects. Which is not surprising when you consider that relatively innocent search terms will return the most unexpected and unwanted results. As an addict I must also remain vigilant to the
Having a whale of a time! Read More »
Just the Obstacles are Different! This is the first of a series of articles I intend to post showing the steps I have taken to try and overcome my pornography addiction. These articles are ‘real’ and in some instances the circumstances may be quite difficult for me to discuss. I would ask that if anybody
My Ski Slope to Sin Read More »
Bio Part 1 – Road to Addiction When I was young, pornographic material was hard to obtain, TV’s had clear adult viewing times and the internet didn’t exist. So how was it possible for me to develop such a ‘hardcore’ addiction…and why am I still fighting 30 years later? I was brought up belonging to
My Story – SA James Read More »
Just a quick message to let you know about an initiative taken on by the Archdiocese of New Orleans. They are continuing to proactively battle the affects of internet pornography on our families. I enclose the link to the full article and have reprinted the prayer card relating to this Safe Haven Sunday event taking
Safe Haven Sunday – Feb 17th / 18th Read More »
