sajames

I have been addicted to pornography for over 20 years and my inability to overcome this sin has caused a great deal of damage in my relationships and in my professional life. Despite a real belief in God and a desire to truly 'repent' and 'amend my ways' I continued to sin. Eventually I lost my job, my reputation and most importantly my family. I began the rebuilding process 3 years ago and started work on this apostolate in 2017. I am still an addict and I still have to work hard to avoid temptation. I pray that all who join this Fellowship will take up their cross to save others...

Who cares most – UK or US?

Who cares most – UK or US? Having spent most my life oblivious to the harm caused by pornography I am now keen to understand how this has been allowed to happen?   In a society that constantly rages over the harm done to children, it seems surprisingly ‘quiet’ with reference to pornography and its effects. 

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The Long Night…

The long night… I love the thought of going to bed and having a long night’s sleep. Most nights I will slip into blissful slumber after just a few pages of my book. I will mutter some protective prayers to Blessed Mary and then happily go to sleep. I am content and at peace and

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Just Say No to Pornography

Having a whale of a time!

The Daily Mail – PORN HUB celebrate ’10 years of porn’. The most problematic area to research on the internet is pornography and its effects.   Which is not surprising when you consider that relatively innocent search terms will return the most unexpected and unwanted results.   As an addict I must also remain vigilant to the

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Sleepless Nights with pornography

My Ski Slope to Sin

Just the Obstacles are Different! This is the first of a series of articles I intend to post showing the steps I have taken to try and overcome my pornography addiction.  These articles are ‘real’ and in some instances the circumstances may be quite difficult for me to discuss.  I would ask that if anybody

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My Story – SA James

Bio Part 1 – Road to Addiction When I was young, pornographic material was hard to obtain, TV’s had clear adult viewing times and the internet didn’t exist.  So how was it possible for me to develop such a ‘hardcore’ addiction…and why am I still fighting 30 years later? I was brought up belonging to

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Welcome to Men of Hope

A very warm welcome for showing the courage to find a site dedicated to supporting men struggling with pornography addiction. Reading on and committing to this group will benefit everybody in their fight against sin. This is my first attempt at anything of this nature and I apologise now if I inadvertently cause offence by

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